Due to our old and new hook system the card dav backend listens to old and new hooks. This triggers this code multiple times and always causes an update. With this change we cache the etag during a request and only trigger the update if the etag has changed. This does not catches all not needed updates, but it does not need another round trip to the database and still covers most cases where multiple attributes are updated during one single request.
Signed-off-by: Morris Jobke <hey@morrisjobke.de>